Did you Know? Rules and Recommendations for Living Your Best Life in Princeton

Whether you have recently moved to the Princeton area or you are a longtime resident looking for new opportunities and information, we are here to help you kick things off for 2024. There are some simple rules that you should know as a local resident, but also experiences that everyone can take advantage of for the first time!

LEGAL BASICS

Let’s start with the basics, things that are required by law from the municipality of Princeton. These are some you likely should have been alerted to by your real estate agent if you’ve purchased new, but if you are a renter or moved in without an agent’s help, you may not be aware.

Parking by your home seems like it should be a given, but in Princeton, it’s not always free or available. Street signs will alert you to the on-street parking rules, which could include 2-hour parking, using a pay station or meter. Parking permits are required for overnight parking on certain streets (primarily in the former borough). If you don’t have a driveway or parking area and you’re not sure if you live where there’s a permit required, best bet is to email the Clerk’s office or drop into the municipal building to find out. Parking permits are sold for $30/quarter with proof of residency and a valid vehicle registration card.

Another option, if you have proof of residency and registration and need parking, could be to utilize one of the two municipal parking yards. Park Place West, behind CVS, is available to all Princeton residents. At $25/month, this lot only provides overnight parking (as well as all day Sunday). Though there is currently a waitlist, you might also qualify to line up for a spot in the Maclean Street Yard. This one is restricted to residents living within 400 feet of the lot, and offers $25/month permits for 24/hour parking.

If you live in a permit-required area and you’re having a guest for the night, you also need to request an overnight permit for them. Last year, the municipality made it easier to request them online. At the bottom of this request form, you can also see a full list of the impacted streets.

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If you have purchased a new house or perhaps recently relocated into a new home in town, there is also a Princeton requirement to register any emergency systems you have – burglar alarm, smoke and CO2 detectors.

According to the municipal ordinance, “The registration form and fee shall be filed between January 1 and January 31 on the first year of each two-year term, and shall be effective until December 31 of the second year of the two- year term, except, if a person installs an alarm system any time after January 1 of the first year of the two-year term, said system shall be registered within thirty days of said installation.”

This is required so that the police have the most up-to-date information if necessary to respond to any alarms. False alarms are limited in number, followed by fines, as they can distract the police from other essential business.

Once you have your parking and housing settled, it’s important to note that dogs in Princeton also require registration. Yes, a license is required to prove to the town that your furry friend is certified as having received its vaccination for rabies. There are two prices, one for those that are spayed/neutered and a few dollars more for those that aren’t. Written proof is required.

If you have any questions about what is necessary in town and it’s not answered here, you can always contact Access Princeton at 609-924-4141 with any questions. You can also connect via the app with an Apple or Android device.

SOCIAL HOUR

One of the first things people seek to do once you’ve settled in is to make some friends or get involved. Perhaps due to COVID or just a reignited desire, you seek to make some new connections in the area, too. Either way, we have some opportunities to share.

In the June 2022 issue of Princeton Perspectives we shared many ways that you can connect with other locals in the article Take Control of Your Life by Surrounding Yourself with Good People. One of the suggestions, open to any women whether you’re an actual newcomer or not, was to take part in Princeton Area Newcomers and Friends. There is a small membership fee to join but you can try out an interest group, Friday with a Friend or Social Coffee event first to see if it’s right for you. Run by the YWCA, there are dozens of activities, learning events and volunteering opportunities, so you can find the group that best suits your interests.

If you are active, or would like to be, Princeton Recreation has sports opportunities that can keep you moving. The oldest Masters Swim Program in New Jersey, Princeton Area Masters, offers swimming options for those seeking fitness laps to competitive training. Winter, Spring and Fall swimming takes place at Princeton University’s DeNunzio Pool while summer sessions are at Community Park Pool. If you prefer the land to the sea, platform tennis is playable through the winter months. And come summer, the Men’s Summer Basketball League provides a competitive platform for play. Princeton YMCA also offers swimming, sports and health & wellness options right in town.

If you consider yourself a Senior, there’s a newish opportunity in town for you. The Princeton Senior Resource Center has rebranded for 2024 as the Center for Modern Aging Princeton. You can check out their calendar, full of activities for the active and inactive senior – ranging from pickleball play to Zoom reading events. The Center also offers guidance for adults and their families, social services, volunteer opportunities and more. Whether you’re looking to make meaningful connections or just pass some time, there is an abundance of opportunity here.

Sometimes, a newcomer just needs a little direction. Facebook and other social media outlets can fill in this gap. Groups like Transplanted (Princeton Area Mom Support) and Princeton NJ Area Moms are online platforms to get advice, feedback and more from other local parents.

DIGGING IN

Often it is helpful to get involved in your local community to feel like a part of it and to give back. Princeton area charities are aplenty, whether you want to donate your time or donate items. A comprehensive list of places by category can be found here.

If you are looking to pass along items you no longer use, for the benefit of someone else, now is a great time to do so. Spring gets the most cred as a time to clean out things in your home, but why not do it now, when you’d rather be indoors anyways? Whether you’ve recently moved, and you realize you’ve brought things you can’t fit or don’t need, or you are doing a purge of things you’ve had in your home a longtime, there are easy ways to give them a second life. For starters, you can check out Facebook groups such as Buy Nothing, or Free Your Stuff Greater Princeton to connect with others in your local area that are seeking items or that you can offer your items to. You can also schedule a donation pickup by PickupPlease. At home pickups of clothing and other household items (full list available here) can make things lighter in your home, all while you are helping out Vietnam Veterans and other charities.

This time a year is also ideal to start your garden planning. Whether you are new to the area or have lived here a lifetime, it is never too late to create or add to your garden. Winter is a great time to pick out what you want to plant and start gathering the seeds. You can even start planting some inside if you prefer. According to the Farmer’s Almanac, February is a great time to plant seeds in this area for arugula, bell and jalapeno peppers, broccoli, cabbage, celery, chives, eggplants, oregano parsley, rosemary, sage, thyme and tomatoes. Put a light up close on the plantings and adjust it higher as they grow. You can expect to move these outdoors in April and May.

STAY IN THE KNOW

In between your helping, giving and planting, you also may want to stay up on what is happening in the area. You can always join in person, and municipal happenings are posted on the calendar. For governance, Princeton Council meetings offer a link in the calendar for live viewing but if you miss them, videos are posted online here. In addition, Princeton Board of Education meetings stream live here and are posted online for later viewing here.

File for whatever permits are required, take part in what you choose and know that there are options to enable you to get as involved in the local community as you want.

Editor’s Note

It is hard to believe there are just a few more weeks until the end of 2023. What a turbulent year it has been! But one of the nice things that happens as December arrives, is no matter what is weighing you down, there are things to cheer you up. Whether it’s watching the Palmer Square tree go up in lights or taking part in one of the local Chanukah celebrations, each family and community has traditions it hopes to pass down from generation to generation.

This month, in the issue Passing Along Princeton Traditions, Old and New, Princeton Perspectives aims to tap into some of those things that keep us going. It’s important to have things to look forward to year after year. It’s also wonderful to try something new – something that might get added to your annual repertoire.

What is your favorite tradition this time of year? That’s what we asked folks around town for this month’s Pulse of Princeton. You may have your own, or you may agree with some of theirs!

When Princeton Perspectives launched in March 2020, we promised to do our best to take a closer look at what matters to Princeton. And we think we’ve done a pretty good job!  Continuing the Tradition of Local Coverage as We Look Back at 2023 takes us through the major happenings of this year. As we look at some of the biggest stories of our area, we also update you on what has happened since.

There’s not too much to update when you talk about historic battles, but there are ways to make them current. In the article History to Come Alive at Princeton Battlefield State Park, our guest writer highlights one of the most impressive reenactments of the Battle of Princeton. There’s still time to put it in your calendar!

Whether you’re planning for a special gathering, or simply like to enjoy things on your own, Tasty Traditions to Try Before the Year is Up can give you something to wet your palate. Whether traditional baked treats or hot drinks, there are many things you can indulge in throughout the area.

Another local tradition is held at Morven. The article Year After Year, Visitors Indulge in the Spirit of the Displays tells you what there is to look forward to, and how you can experience them.

Though we dedicate an entire article to a look back at some of this year’s biggest stories, there are still others that need an update. This month’s Perspectives Revisited takes a look at some new rules that may affect you.

If you are celebrating a holiday this month, we send our best wishes. And to everyone, thank you for another great year together. We wish you all a very Happy New Year and look forward to delving into more local stories in 2024!

Pulse of Princeton: What is your favorite tradition this time of year?

Continuing the Tradition of Local Coverage as We Look Back at 2023

Traditions must begin somewhere, not all traditions are old. We are thankful that since March 2020, reading Princeton Perspectives has become a valued tradition for many to stay on top of important local news. With the War in Israel and Gaza and next year’s Presidential election topping most national headlines, we hardly hear mention of some of the big local stories that happened throughout 2023. We’ve covered a large variety of them for you and, as we take a look back, we will update you on how things have changed.

STATE OF THE ECONOMY

In the January issue, What’s it Like Here? – Local Updates on National News, we shared the latest about the rising inflation that was affecting everyone in the article How National Political Issues are Playing Out at the State and Local Levels. Prices across the U.S. had increased by 7.1% over 2022 and in the New Jersey area, were up 5.9%. Today, “Core” CPI inflation is up nearly 4% over the year for the Garden State. That number comes from the change in prices of goods and services, excluding those from volatile sectors like energy and food.

When it comes to food, prices had risen 8.6% in the region as the year began. Nearly a year later, the cost of a loaf of bread has risen another $0.15 or 8%. Though ground beef in the northeast region has gotten slightly cheaper, the cost of food overall has seen an increase. The U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics shows throughout the year, food prices in our area went up 3.5%. The increase is even higher if you like to dine out, up 5.7%.

Fueling up appears to be better on the wallet. Gas prices fell slightly at the start of 2023, to $3.35 per gallon. It was at that same price even a month ago, but today, it looks like the price average has dropped. According to the U.S. Joint Economics Committee, December 2023 gas prices average $3.24 per gallon (though that is still $0.02 higher than the national average).

As 2023 began, the housing market was also suffering from the lowest number of mortgage applications seen since 1996, said to be largely tied into the high mortgage rates. Our area was noted to be between 5.375% to 6.99% at the start of the year. Unfortunately, today, these rates have not improved. At their highest since 2000, someone in NJ can get a 7.42% interest rate for a 30-year fixed mortgage and 6.76% for a 15-year fixed mortgage.

AN AFFORDABLE HOME?

With mortgage rates so high, it’s been a difficult time for many to purchase a home. But Princeton is working on bridging that gap by offering even more housing opportunities for those on a limited budget. In March, in the issue Change Can Be Hard. How Do We Know If It’s The Right Choice?we heard from two of Princeton’s elected officials in the article How Affordable Housing Gets Added into Town is a Complex Decision. There is a mandate to build affordable housing, and if you are unclear on why or how that works, I suggest you read our previous article. A total of 753 units are required by law to become available by 2025, but as Mayor Mark Freda and Councilwoman Michele Pirone Lambros each shared, there is a lot to consider about how to meet the requirements.

When the most recent affordable housing obligation was handed down, Princeton received credit for 244 previously constructed units (including sites like Merwick Stanworth and Avalon Bay on Witherspoon). Princeton has also taken the initiative to authorize construction of multi-unit apartment buildings to meet the remaining need. Building is underway on either side of Princeton Shopping Center, aiming to add a total of 69 affordable units to the mix of market-rate ones. Just down the street on Terhune Road is a new Avalon Bay property at the old Thanet site. It should add 15 affordable living spaces. In addition, a 100% affordable senior housing development is set to go up on that site as well, adding 80 units (and the rental applications for those have just become available!). Not too far away on Herrontown Road, former site of SAVE Animal Shelter, this municipally sponsored development is expected to create 64 affordable units. Twenty-five more apartments added to the already existing Princeton Community Village, another of the 100% affordable Housing sites in town, will improve the supply. And the Franklin Maple site, which will be municipally sponsored, adds 80 more affordable units and will also be site to some additional housing. Phew!

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Zoning changes around town, such as affordable housing overlay zones, are additionally providing opportunities for multi-family homes with some affordable spaces for new residents. One example is on Terhune Road that will bring 6 affordable apartments for sale. With the bonus credit received for rental units, Princeton has now built or planned a total of 797 affordable living spaces – an excess of 44 over the current requirement that should offset whatever future mandates are set forth. Should the 238-unit proposal at the old Seminary site be approved, that could add affordable spaces to the mix as well. More to come!

UPHEAVAL AT PRINCETON PUBLIC SCHOOLS

With additional housing comes additional students, and Princeton is already struggling with overcrowding at all of its schools. The April issue of Princeton Perspectives shared many changes happening throughout the school system. In the issue A Caring Community Divided – What is Happening at Princeton’s Schools? we informed of community perspectives to deal with current and future elementary enrollment issues in the article Elementary Families Share Ideas as They Look Towards District Changes.

The district unveiled several options for construction/changes to the elementary and middle schools in October and the Princeton Public Schools Board of Education was set to vote on moving forward with a middle school expansion as well as expansion of Community Park (CP) School, to welcome 5 classes per grade. Concern from educators and the community prompted the Board to direct the architect to further explore the option of making CP a 4-class-per-grade school while doing the same to Littlebrook Elementary (LB). It was revealed this week, at their December 12th meeting, that with 1,100 new residential units planned across town and the already tight enrollment concerns, the recommendation now is the latter one – which ultimately will not only include CP and LB changes, but will add space at the middle school, with some minor work at the high school and demolition of the older section of the Valley Road administration building as well. Though the concepts are out, they are still defining and better refining the specifics. A planned community forum will be held on Saturday, January 6th, offering a chance for more feedback. If approved by the board, this will still require a referendum vote in November 2024, with the goal of having the new spaces ready for use in September 2027.

Meanwhile, the April issue also included the article The Community Wants to Know: A Conversation with Frank Chmiel, an interview with then Princeton High School (PHS) Principal Frank Chmiel after he was put on leave, later terminated. In August, Assistant Principal Cecilia Birge was promoted to fill his role as Principal at PHS. And in November, our Perspectives Revisited updated you on more senior staffing changes, with Superintendent Carol Kelley’s abrupt October resignation followed by mid-November’s board vote to instate Kathie Foster as Acting Superintendent through August 2024.

Board President Dafna Kendal tells Princeton Perspectives they have not yet discussed the search for a new superintendent. That is expected to take place in January, once the two newly elected board members join their ranks. They will also have to consider filling another vacant spot next year as Rebecca Gold, Princeton’s Assistant Superintendent for Human Relations, will be leaving after her contract ends in June. That search is expected to begin soon as well.

In other school news, the technology department has made public their quest to unionize as they reach out to the state for help, citing the district is not providing proper staffing and other needs to enable them to do their job sufficiently. Will this lead to changes? We will keep you posted.

CONSTRUCTION HERE AND EVERYWHERE!

If you’re driving to a school, or anywhere else in town, it is not unusual to see a construction area along nearly every route you take around Princeton. In the June issue, Trials and Tribulations Around Town: What’s the Best Way to Move Forward?, we detailed several of the projects and their impacts on the community in the article Construction and Traffic and Parking…Oh Boy! The Impacts are Being Felt Around Town. The good news is many of them have anticipated spring 2024 completion dates, so there is relief in sight.

Partial or full road closures have been frequent as the Graduate Hotel and the new Triumph Brewing Company buildings go up downtown. Triumph, however, is done with exterior work so it will cause no further construction closures on any street around Palmer Square. Though there remain a lot of variables, the design team is finishing up, and they are working on the furnishings with hopes of opening in early 2024. The Graduate, at the corner of Nassau and Chambers Streets, is proceeding on schedule, still on track for a spring 2024 opening.

The Witherspoon Street Improvements Project completed Phase I from Nassau to Green Streets in June. Phase II, from Green Street to Leigh Avenue is now underway. The major work is completed, but final paving, adding striping and markings on the pavement, installing raised sidewalks, landscaping, lighting and signage are still on the docket. Though this is not expected to be completed until May, Phase III will begin sometime between January and March. This will take the transformation all the way down to Valley Road.

As you’ve maneuvered around the streets, you’ve likely noticed parking downtown has taken a hit with all of these projects. It has additionally been complicated by contractors working in the Spring Street Garage. On Friday, that work will take a temporary halt through the holidays, with waterproofing coating and parking stall striping occurring in the spring.

As I described above, Princeton’s Council has been working with new developers to include affordable housing units in new building construction. The creation of each comes with other concerns as it relates to street closures, traffic changes and more. The area of Harrison and Terhune Streets can be affected with three complexes going up nearby. On Stockton Street (Route 206) buildings came down at the Princeton Seminary, and a final proposal has been made to add 238 units there. Will that add to the traffic back-ups already surrounding the area? Council members tell us it will not, but details are yet to come.

“A traffic study will be required when an application for site plan approval is submitted – the proposal is one step in the process of development of a redevelopment plan. That plan needs to be approved before site plan applications can be made,” explains Assistant Municipal Engineer Jim Purcell.

As PSE&G continues its Gas System Modernization Program, various roadways will be closed throughout the remainder of this year and through 2024. The natural gas main replacements are being done with an effort to minimize traffic disruption. For example, when it is time to begin work on state highways like Nassau or Stockton Streets, there will be efforts to complete them at night to allow for traffic flow throughout the day. Those locations are expected to start early next year.

How does one stay on top of all of this? Municipal Nixle alerts regarding road closures and emergencies have gotten more descriptive, an attempt to minimize the frustrations. If you haven’t already, you can sign up to receive these messages by texting your zip code to 888777. The Engineering website is also updated with the latest in happenings, so you can be prepared as you travel around.

THE WAR WAGES ON

In late November, there was an extended ceasefire between Israel and Gaza, as both sides laid down their arms, hostages were released by Hamas, and prisoners released by Israel. We wrote about the local impacts of this war in the November issue Understanding & Supporting Others During This Trying Time. In the article The Rise in Jew-Hatred is Felt Near and Far we explained at that time the number of reported antisemitic incidents across the US had increased 388% from the same time last year. Now, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL) says that over the past two months it has recorded the most antisemitic incidents in a two-month period since they started tracking such instances in 1979 – 2,031 have been recorded across the country. Anti-Israel rallies with overt antisemitism have taken place in Princeton and New Brunswick, both also home to major universities. In fact, 73% of Jewish students across the country claim to have witnessed or been victim to an antisemitic attack on campus this school year. On Tuesday, Rutgers University (RU) was added to the list of schools that are being investigated by the federal government for violating Title VI of the Civil Rights Act, which bans discrimination at institutions that receive federal funding. This, just a day after RU suspended Students for Justice in Palestine Organization, citing it posed a “substantial and immediate threat to the safety and well-being of others.” RU follows Columbia, Brandeis and George Washington Universities in doing the same.

As we conclude 2023 and look to 2024, we hope for some happier news. We will continue to provide any necessary updates to these big stories, and we also promise to continue to delve into the stories and issues impacting our community the most! We hope you will continue the tradition of reading Princeton Perspectives for the most in-depth information.

Tasty Traditions to Try Before the Year is Up

There is nothing more traditional than the food and drink one has at special occasions, places or certain times of year. Religiously, fish is synonymous with Fridays during Lent, matzoh is a staple of Passover and one can be seen eating dates nightly during Ramadan. Culturally, there is usually turkey at a Thanksgiving feast and regionally, you expect some good collard greens if you travel down south.

As we approach the end of the year, the holiday spirit fills the air and food and drink once again play a primary role. Do you yearn for a slice of fruitcake? Bear the cold for a special brew? We asked Princeton Perspectives readers to let us know if there are traditional treats they look forward to this time of year, and 84% told us there are.

While the Princeton area is home to some amazing bakeries, 56% of our readers prefer to bake their own holiday treats. After all, there is something to be said for the aromas lingering from the oven, and the joy of knowing that your creation brings smiles to your loved ones.

If baking isn’t your thing, do not fret. There are nearly a dozen bakeries just in Princeton alone and the expert eaters amongst us have recommendations for you from all over the nearby areas!

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Chez Alice, in downtown Princeton, is mentioned for its macaroons and other baked treats. Lillipies and Delizioso Bakery are also top Princeton spots. In Hamilton, Lilla Vanilla’s great staff is recognized for their beautiful designs and decorating, and Eet Gud Bakery is known to be good and fresh. Cramer’s in Yardley and Princeton’s Dunkin Donuts are apparently the places to go for sufganyot (jelly doughnuts) but if you want other delicious holiday treats you can also try favorites like The Little Chef Pastry Shop, Maddalena’s and Dolce & Celmente’s. Developing a personal relationship with your local baker can also make a difference, as it can almost feel like a relative has done the baking for you.

“The owner, Karen, (of Sweet Gourmet in Princeton North Shopping Center, State Highway 206) began making Challah after someone asked her if she ever made it and she said she’d try. She now makes and sells delicious fresh baked challah every Friday. I love that she’s open to trying shopper’s suggestions,” one reader shared.

“Anything from local baker extraordinaire Holley Barreto and her Sugar Street Bakehouse any time of year, but especially the seasonally appropriate cinnamon sugar donut muffins. They are my favorite food in the world,” expressed another.

If your mouth isn’t watering yet, keep reading. We have given you a taste, but there are more details to share about what people enjoy. Turns out, Princeton Perspectives’ readers are split when it comes to what treats top the list this time of year – 38% go for fruitcake (traditional for Christmas) while another 38% prefer sufganyot (traditional for Chanukah). Pie, something enjoyed by all, is a favorite for another 21% and the remainder enjoy a variety of holiday cookies!

You can enjoy the food alone, but wintertime and the holidays often call for a nice hot drink. It is not surprising that 54% go for a hot chocolate. 21% of our respondents told us that egg nog is their pick, a treat many savor at the holidays. If your hot drink of choice is a hot toddy or mulled red wine, you are not alone. Those warm the bodies of 7% and 3% of our readers, respectively.

But where do they go for these warm drinks? Some prefer area locations of  Maman, Wegmans, Wawa, Starbucks and Dunkin Donuts. Local spots the bent spoon and Small World Coffee also received multiple mentions. Of course, there’s those who prefer to make it themselves at home and for some, it doesn’t quite matter.

“Anywhere when I’m out and it’s chilly,” a reader explained. Another shared, “Hot chocolate is delicious no matter where it’s from, although my kids say it’s even better than usual from the bent spoon (I’ve never personally tried it from there).”

If you want to be able to treat your holiday guests to a nice warm drink, you can shop at Joe Canal’s or other local liquor stores to gather the ingredients for a hot toddy and mulled wine, or load everyone in the car for a road trip to try one of the recommended local spots.

Holiday baking also requires some planning, so that you can be sure to either have the ingredients on hand or your order is into your baker in time to get it prepared.

However, and wherever you enjoy your food and drink, we hope that it’s surrounded by love and brings you joy!

Editor’s Note

Since October 7th, things have been different. Though there is a war taking place in the Middle East, it is having a major impact on many right here in the greater Princeton area. Over the past month+, there have been local gatherings of grief and solidarity with Israel, Pro-Palestinian rallies, teach-ins, and vigils to bring home the hostages. Very little has been covered by our local media, so we felt compelled to do so.

In this issue, Understanding & Supporting Others During This Trying Time, Princeton Perspectives aims to take a closer look at why a war in Israel and Gaza is affecting people so closely here.

Though our local media is covering little, mainstream media is covering this issue non-stop. From national online publications to cable news channels, network news and social media, people are learning about the area for the first time and getting updates on what is happening in live time. Where are you getting your knowledge? We asked Princeton University students to share how they stay in-the-know in this month’s Pulse of Princeton, and you may be interested to hear what they have to say.

If you’re paying attention, you have either seen first-hand or heard about the rise in antisemitism and Islamophobia this past month. Both are forms of hate, brewing from a war between mostly Jews and Muslims. But the hate is coming from people of all religions, races and nations. Antisemitism, in particular, is seeing the highest rise around the world of our lifetimes, reminiscent of that felt in the 1930s and ‘40s. It’s building fear in the Jewish people that the world is on the brink of another Holocaust. The Rise in Jew-Hatred is Felt Near and Far examines what antisemitism is, how it has grown and what is happening locally to fuel it and counter it.

One of the ways to eliminate hate is to learn about history, about people and the lives they’ve lived. But how does one learn this? In the article A Mix of Local Education and Transglobal Information Feed Today’s Youth we examine what NJ content students learn in school, at home and on social media and whether or not it prepares them to engage in global conversations like this.

For many, the emotional and mental toll of the Israel-Hamas War is having a major psychological impact. Use an Open Heart to Get Through Today’s Tragedies, is a local psychologist’s vantage point, insight that might allow you to see things a little differently and to feel a little bit better.

Finding compassion, as is recommended in the article above, is one way to engage in conversation and to move forward while the war is going on and after. It can be a difficult thing to find, especially with someone who comes from a different social identity group than you do. But that also might be the key. In Allyship: A Way to Advocate and Commiserate with Others, we learn from experiences locals have engaged in to open our eyes and heart, to move forward.

We are also looking back, providing updates on stories we have covered in the past. This month’s Perspectives Revisited touches on municipal and school information that you will want to stay up on.

We aimed to bring you lots of information in this issue, some which is harder to read and some which can give you hope. Until next month, keep leaning on those you love.

Pulse of Princeton: Where do PU students get their news about the war?

The Rise in Jew-Hatred is Felt Near and Far

Symbol for a national campaign designed to raise awareness about antisemitism and hatred against Jews

Antisemitism has long been the most-reported religious hate crime. Since the October 7th Israeli massacre by Hamas it has skyrocketed, with downtowns, college campuses and other areas being site to some of the most blatant and overt acts of our time, creating a fear of another Holocaust to come.

In October, the FBI released its 2022 Hate Crimes Statistics Report, which showed more than half of all religion-based crimes in the U.S. are anti-Jewish. Additionally for 2022, the Anti-Defamation League (ADL) tabulated a 36% increase in antisemitic acts over what it had found in 2021, which at that point was the highest number recorded since the organization began tracking incidents in 1979. After California, New Jersey had the most reported antisemitic incidents across the U.S. in 2019, the most in 2020 & 2021 and the 2nd most in 2022. Since the October 7th attacks, the spike has been monumental, surpassing all reports in recent decades.

“This is the most heightened antisemitism, unprecedented in our lifetimes,” states Brandi Katz Rubin, ADL Senior Associate Regional Director for NY/NJ. “We’re seeing Jew hate, not just anti-Israel hate at this point, which has shifted in the past weeks. Protests or vandalism is not just death to Israel but death to Jews, it’s F&%* Jews. At Rutgers University, someone recently posted on the school’s YikYak channel a murderous threat to an Israeli fraternity member. Police were able to track them down and there was an arrest.”

WHAT EXACTLY IS ANTISEMITISM?

The working definition of antisemitism from the International Holocaust Remembrance Alliance, widely accepted internationally, is “a certain perception of Jews, which may be expressed as hatred toward Jews. Rhetorical and physical manifestations of antisemitism are directed toward Jewish or non-Jewish individuals and/or their property, toward Jewish community institutions and religious facilities.”

At just 2% of the U.S. population, Jews have become an increased target in the United States. From Oct. 7th– Nov. 7th there were 832 incidents of assault, vandalism and harassment that have been vetted and confirmed by the ADL, a 316% increase as compared to this period last year (when there was already heightened antisemitism due to comments made by Ye). Over the weekend, a grenade (later found to be inert) was spotted at Holocaust Memorial Park in Brooklyn, and what turned out to be a phony 9-1-1 call claiming pipe bombs were left inside one of New York City’s biggest synagogues had many on edge. New York and New Jersey officials are on alert.

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“The New Jersey Attorney General has spoken very strongly, and Governor Murphy has spoken very strongly and unequivocally in support of Israel’s right to defend itself and condemning terrorism,” Rubin states. They have also spoken out against hate and antisemitism. And while that helps, she says other things are fueling the fire. “Reporting on unverified information in the media we are seeing has real consequences in the real world. It is leading to antisemitic hatred and violence.”

LOCAL INCIDENTS REPORTED

Anti-Jewish crimes in New York City have tripled since Oct. 7th. Overall, in the NY/NJ region, as of Nov. 1st there was more than a 100% increase in incidents reported to the ADL compared to this time last year, a number that is expected to have grown even larger by now. For 2023, the ADL heatmap (which has not been updated with all recent reports) shows antisemitic acts and white supremacist events have been reported nearby in Princeton, Hamilton, Plainsboro, Ewing and New Brunswick. An additional map from the ADL shows East Windsor was the site of recent antisemitic harassment as well. Princeton Police Department says there has not been anything of this nature filed directly to them recently. Reported means that someone either filed a police report or submitted the details to the ADL directly, incidents which are then vetted. Many acts of Jew hatred are not even reported, do not rise to the level of a crime or do not qualify as a registered incident. Therefore, the numbers are said to be only a portion of what is taking place.

Though not a rampant hotbed, Princeton has had its share of strong antisemitic acts over the years. For example, in 2016, Princeton High School students were found to be playing “Jews vs. Nazis” beer pong. In 2017, a swastika was put into a document shared across all 8th graders and staff at the Princeton Middle School. 2021 saw a Pro-Palestinian rally turn into a march down Nassau Street with people holding signs that included words like “Hitler Should Have Finished the Job.” And earlier this year, a Princeton Middle School student shouted plans to shoot up a Bar Mitzvah, in addition a white supremacist group marched through town. Antisemitic acts are sometimes very intentional and other times done out of a lack of understanding. A new study, released this week by the ADL, finds that 71% of Americans feel Jew-hatred is a major problem in the U.S. American Jewish Committee (AJC) did a survey last year and found 31% of Americans were not even familiar with the term antisemitism.

“It is a hatred of Jews and a hatred of Zionism, I believe they go hand in hand. The expressions thereof, in word and deed, in ways that are either aggressive or passive. There are subtle forms of antisemitism that usually come out in someone’s language that they use,” notes Rabbi Andi Merow, of The Jewish Center. “The quiet words, antisemitic comments, contribute to people feeling not safe and othered, meaning your group is not mainstream and there’s something wrong with you.”

Locally, there has been some escalation this past month, but it doesn’t appear to be as heightened as seen elsewhere. On Route 18, near the Rutgers campus, a mix of Nazi ideology and Israeli hatred was drawn on the ground – a Nazi flag with a swastika in the middle coupled with graffiti that said F&%* Israel and death to the IDF. A local synagogue in Monroe was spraypainted with antisemitic graffiti last week. Local high school students have also seen an uptick in hurtful and harmful comments and actions. One area student was repeatedly asked by another what their number was, while the student rolled up their sleeve and pointed to the forearm – a reference to the numbers branded into the arms of those at concentration camps during the Holocaust. Another local student has had “dog whistle” shouted repeatedly, a term that appears to mean nothing but in fact is a way to communicate a noxious view some recognize without outright saying it for all to hear.

On October 28th and November 4th, Pro-Palestinian rallies were held along areas of Nassau Street in Princeton. The rallies themselves were not considered antisemitic. However, when antisemitic terms or tropes were displayed on signs or shouted from the crowd, messages of Jew hatred were spread. AJC has recently explained “when protesters chant ‘From the River to the Sea,’ they are rejecting Israel’s right to exist, by indicating that the entire land of Israel should be freed from Jews.” The ADL also considers this chant to be antisemitic, stating on its website “it is fundamentally a call for a Palestinian state extending from the Jordan River to the Mediterranean Sea, territory that includes the State of Israel, which would mean the dismantling of the Jewish state. It is an antisemitic charge denying the Jewish right to self-determination, including through the removal of Jews from their ancestral homeland.” Additionally, signs supporting the Hamas attack and people screaming directly at locals that they have “blood on their hands” caused concern and fear to some witnessing the rally.

COLLEGES FACING THE FIGHT NEARBY

Similar chants and signage have also been seen over the past month across the campus of Princeton University (PU), one of many institutions of higher education that has been noted in national media for antisemitic incidents on campus. Rutgers University has also been the site of several targeted and covert attacks. Since Oct. 7th, at least 200 of the 653 anti-Israel rallies held nationwide have included support for Hamas and/or violence against Jews in Israel – 124 of those took place on college campuses. Concerned about threats and danger to the students, staff and faculty on these campuses, on November 2nd the U.S. House of Representatives overwhelmingly passed a resolution “condemning the support of Hamas, Hezbollah, and other terrorist organizations at institutions of higher education, which may lead to the creation of a hostile environment for Jewish students, faculty, and staff.” Congresswoman Bonnie Watson Coleman, who represents Princeton, voted against this bill.

PU has faced heat in the past, including at the start of this school year for a book on a course reading list strongly criticized as antisemitic, and officials recognize things have gotten even more heated this past month.

“The University takes antisemitism and other forms of bias seriously. As on many campuses, Princeton has seen a heightened number of concerning incidents, interpersonal conflicts, and demonstrations since October 7. The University is working to respond to these painful, problematic situations and support the wellbeing of the campus community while maintaining the right of individuals to engage in protected speech,” shares Michael Hotchkiss, Princeton University Assistant VP for Communications. He further spoke of the issue many are discussing, which is where the line is drawn between free speech and hate speech. A recent PU walkout organized by Students for Justice in Palestine (SJP), a group with chapters on over 200 campuses that has explicitly expressed support for Hamas or terrorism, included chants of “Long live the Intifada (a reference to the days of suicide bombers and mass shootings on the streets of Israel). “As President Eisgruber has written, ‘The freedom of speech allows not only for genteel conversation but also for harsh language, impassioned argument, and provocative rhetoric. Of course, it also permits all of us to criticize statements that we find offensive or irresponsible, even if that speech is fully protected from punishment or discipline.’”

Around the country, many Jewish students are reporting they do not feel safe amidst the changing climates on college campuses. Despite what is happening at PU, the Rabbi for the on-campus Jewish organization, Hillel, says the students are getting through this.

“There have, indeed, been pro-Palestinian events on Campus, and at one event, participants chanted ‘From the River to the Sea’ and ‘Intifada’. Many in the Jewish community hear these chants not as a call for peaceful Palestinian resistance to oppression or support for a Palestinian state, but as an antisemitic wish for the obliteration of the Jewish State, and as a call to violence and worse against Jews,” explains Rabbi Gil Steinlauf, Executive Director and Jewish Chaplain Center for Jewish Life – Princeton Hillel. “In the face of these challenges, however, our Jewish students are, across the board, undaunted and unafraid on campus. They are surrounded by love and support not just at the Center for Jewish Life, Princeton Hillel, but by so many among their non-Jewish peers and in the university leadership who have expressed their care, compassion, and support for the Jewish people on campus. Our students walk around campus proudly as Jews, and many are more than willing to engage their peers in talking about Israel, and to help them to understand the complexities of the situation, many of which are lost in the news reports and in social media these days.”

COMMUNITIES COMING TOGETHER

There is also a sense of comfort and safety for other Jews in the community when people speak out against hate. In a statement at their October 23rd meeting, Princeton Council and Mayor made a statement about the Israel-Hamas war which included “we reaffirm our unwavering commitment to stand against antisemitism…” This statement was not made in a vacuum, according to Rabbi Merow, who says the mayor’s office, the Princeton Police department, local Presbyterian pastors and local Black ministers have reached out. Two other local ministers joined The Jewish Center congregation for services this past weekend.

“The antidote of antisemitism is the love and care the Jewish community has received from the police dept and the mayor’s office. I have felt they have gone out of their way to try and support us,” Merow shares.

By standing up to hate, you too, can show your support. If you have been the victim of or witnessed an antisemitic incident, you can report it through the ADL Incident Portal at adl.org/report. They should also be reported to the Princeton Police Department.

A Mix of Local Education and Transglobal Information Feed Today’s Youth

Princeton Public Schools has a mission “to prepare all of our students to lead lives of joy and purpose as knowledgeable, creative and compassionate citizens of a global society.” The Hun School of Princeton “empowers each student to thrive in a diverse and ever-changing world…” and Princeton Day School’s philosophy is to “seek diversity of cultures, views and talents to promote the intellectual growth and moral development of our students.” As the Israel-Hamas War wages on, do teenagers and young adults find their educations have prepared them for the global conversations and situations they now find themselves in?

“I think my school does a decent job in preparing us for global conversations, but it also depends on the topic,” shares Princeton High School Senior, Maiyin H. “The Israel-Hamas War is one of those topics where teachers are treading very lightly because of how polarizing and contentious different views can be. I, for one, do not feel comfortable expressing a different view or asking a question that may not be ‘PC.’ As someone who is not Jewish or of Middle Eastern descent, I often feel like I don’t have the right to express an opinion because I ‘don’t have any skin in the game.’ Talking about the war, which is complicated and goes back thousands of years, is difficult and I understand that, but oversimplifying the history is not the answer either.”

What does NJ do to prepare today’s teens and young adults to engage in conversations about global situations? The NJ Department of Education’s mission states “Social studies education provides learners with the knowledge, skills, attitudes, and perspectives needed to become active, informed, and contributing members of local, state, national, and global communities.” To do so, there are requirements to learn world history/global studies in both middle and high school. To graduate, 15 credits of social studies are required, including 5 credits of World History.

“I’ve taken history classes that I feel have prepared me and given me confidence to engage in discussions. Wars over land and religion have been going on in our world for centuries,” says PHS Senior Charlie Ross.

New Jersey education law also stipulates that “every board of education shall include instruction on the Holocaust and genocides in an appropriate place in the curriculum of all elementary and secondary school pupils.”

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Over the past several years, Princeton Public Schools has added mandatory racial literacy education to the curriculum which the website states “has a foundation in pedagogies developed to advance social justice, cultural responsiveness, and multiculturalism.” Though included, teaching about antisemitism and Islamophobia have not been a major focus of this curriculum to date. Overall, at schools in Princeton and elsewhere, the goal of all of this education remains to develop informed citizens about the world, its history, and its citizens.

“As for curriculum, the history of Israel is not something really focused on in most NJ state educations. World History is mostly history of the western world – the Romans, Greeks, Renaissance. And most of high school education is U.S. history,” explains Sara Fernandez, who recently retired as a Social Studies teacher at Cranbury School after 26 years of teaching. “Israel and the Palestinians is maybe taught in detail in elective classes, but probably not in regular mainstream classes.”

In recent weeks, some teachers have chosen to speak in their classrooms about what is happening across the world (at varying degrees of success), while others have not. Some independent schools, like Princeton Day School, have taken the initiative to bring in an expert on the Middle East in an effort to respond to questions about the Israeli-Palestinian conflict. When it comes to Holocaust and genocide, though the requirement is fulfilled differently at each district and independent schools are not bound to such state requirements, the curriculums aim to help students learn about some of history’s mistakes. With the Israel-Hamas War leading some around the world to include mentions of genocide and reignite Nazi propaganda, that education can be relevant and important. In Princeton, this education had fallen out of the middle school curriculum for several years but is said to be back through 7th grade English and 8th grade Civics classes. In the high school, it mainly comes through the sophomore English course and is included in various U.S. and World History curriculums. There has been a year-long audit underway to determine what and how the information is being relayed.

“We read Anne Frank’s The Diary of a Young Girl in school and had a Holocaust survivor give a talk to students. We learned about antisemitism. But we mostly learned it as a historical event tied to WWII and the Nazis. I was shocked to see this genocidal hatred openly displayed in broad daylight,” expresses Sarah Chen, a PHS sophomore.

It might be unreasonable to expect that schools can fully educate students on all they need to know about this specific issue, since Israelis and the Palestinians have a complicated past. Conversations about the Israel-Hamas war and the ensuing reactions around the world are encumbered by the nuances of the history of the region and the fact that religion is involved. For many, the war is not just something 5,700 miles away. Locally, it has ignited academia, led to rallies, vigils, and taken over news channels and social media feeds. College students are confronted with what is happening on a regular basis. There are also courses, more directly aimed at public policy, global affairs, the Middle East and more where the topic is a natural part of the discussion there. If not in these particular classes, what kind of background do students get to prepare them for such conversations?

“Patience, empathy, understanding and listening skills are built every day in our class so when we get to these conversations you have a community that is patient and understanding,” Fernandez shares. “You have to talk to people you don’t always agree with.”

Beyond the classrooms and campuses, teens and young adults today have at their fingertips access to information that feeds their minds and opinions. Depending who you follow on social media, what you read and watch on the internet, can have a large impact on the knowledge you hold and on how you engage on this issue. When it comes to using it as a tool for education, that is where some additional education might be needed.

“Social media can be positive and negative. When the Ukranian war broke out, my students learned so much. That part of the world was something they hadn’t been exposed to much. Some Tik Tok videos were of reporters posting and they were right and good. So, that’s a medium children love,” Fernandez notes. “But at the same time, social media is also filled with the worst of the worse students are finding too. When they hear the word Israel, it’s just a tiny country in the middle of nowhere, and unless you’re Jewish or Arabic or have origins from that part of the world, most kids don’t care. They have no context and are being bombarded with images.”

Recognizing the significant role it has on them, in July, NJ Governor Phil Murphy established a commission to study the effects of social media on adolescents. The results will come out long after the impacts are made regarding today’s war and possibly even tomorrow’s troubles.

“I get most of my education on these issues through social media,” Ross admits. Maiyin H. acknowledges the same. “I definitely get most of my education from social media. On the one hand, this has afforded me so many different views and perspectives. On the other hand, social media is strife with fake news and people who lean strongly one way or the other, which can influence how I think.”

Education, therefore, must include a learning of historical realities and deciphering fact from fiction. Beyond the classroom and social media, families impact a young person’s perspective as well. Experts suggest when confronted with questions, to lean on empathy. If a child pushes further, lay out the facts and let them devise their conclusion.

Editor’s Note

Every October Princeton Perspectives puts out an issue all about the elections, to help every local voter be educated and informed. This month is no different, as we’ve gathered all the details on when and where to vote, how to vote, what’s being voted on and more. As we put the final touches on this issue, our hearts go out to the Israeli, American and other victims of Hamas’ terrorist acts. A war has been unleashed that will sadly lead to more injuries and deaths on both sides. Our thoughts and prayers are with everyone in our community and abroad that are suffering.

Here in New Jersey, the democratic election process moves forward, allowing people to have say in what happens next. Ballots have arrived in mailboxes if you Vote By Mail. Sample Ballots are online. There may be offices up for contest and candidates you know nothing about. It’s all here in Elections 2023 – Details on Voting, Candidates & More!, the only local publication where you will find it all.

What is driving you to vote? We asked local residents what issue is top of mind as they prepare for election day. This month’s Pulse of Princeton video shares their concerns.

Though the basic concept of casting one’s vote is old, every year there are new elements that come into play. The article The General Election: Who’s Running? What’s New? What’s at Stake? provides insight into every political candidate on the ballot, explains some new things to be aware of before you vote and lets you know the dates and locations where you can drop a ballot or vote in person.

Also year’s election includes decisions that greatly effect Princeton’s schools. The article What is the PPS Referendum and Who are the Board Candidates? shares insight into the two incumbents and three challengers running, an explanation of the referendum and more.

Imagine if you sat down and had coffee with someone with opposing political views. Disagreement, judgements and strong opinions lead many to avoid it. How, then, do we learn from one another and expand our minds? This month, Princeton Perspectives is offering you a chance to hear what the other side wants to share with you, without anyone else knowing and without anyone else judging. In two articles, The Importance of Voting in November, A Perspective From Local Democrats and The Importance of Voting in November, A Perspective From a Local Republican individual viewpoints are shared that you can consider.

And don’t skip past Perspectives Revisited, because there is an important update on cellular service around Princeton you just might want to know! We also share Princeton Public School’s newly released proposal to help alleviate the elementary school enrollment situation. Read on to find out!

We hope you find this issue informational and helpful as you fill in your Vote By Mail ballot or head to the polls. Remember, the decisions made this November have the greatest impact because you are voting for the positions that control your property tax bill the most!

We hope you have a very Happy Halloween and we’ll see you again after the election!